समय का ध्यान तय समय पर पहुंच जाएं, अपनी डेट को बिल्कुल भी इंतजार ना करवाएं। इससे फर्स्ट डेट पर ही आपका इंप्रेशन गलत पडे़गा, हालांकि यह बात दोनों तरफ लागू होती है।
आप जिस ड्रेस में सबसे अच्छे लगते हैं वही ड्रेस पहने, मगर वह साफ-सुथरी होनी चाहिये। आपकी डेट को लगना चाहिये कि आप अच्छी तरह तैयार हो कर आए हैं। कोई अच्छा सा परफ्यूम लगाएं, ताकि आपके बदन से आ रही खुशबू सामने वाले को अच्छी लगे।
Be Attentive. Ask Great Questions. Listen. Smile.
Be Confident. She Already Said yes. She Wants To Be There.
Brought A Girl Home After Our First Date,
And Asked Her If I Could Come Inside
Oh No, I Never Ask A Guy In On The First Date
She Answered. Okay I Replied. How About On The Last Date.
Use compliments appropriately. She likely put some effort into her look for you,
So offer her a compliment or two. Avoid a never ending list of praise,
It can get overwhelming or comments that sound too sexual.
Beautiful is better than smokin.
Don not let the evening end with a fizzle.
Be intentional about saying goodbye, and initiate one of the following:
A handshake, hug, or kiss.
Don not leave her standing there awkwardly at the end of the night.
Even if she offers, insist on paying for the date
especially if you initiated the date in the first place.
As a couple, you will figure out how to split and cover bills later.
But for now, pick up the check.
Do not put pressure on yourself to be witty, smart or alluring. Do not get caught up in the version of yourself you wish you were. He wants to date the real you.
Taking an interest in her life, job or anything else that she likes to talk about is a must for first date conversations.
Don’t douse yourself in perfume, but use it liberally over your pulse points like the neck, your cleavage, your palms and the back of your neck.
Eik Sahi' Hai Jo Bant Lety Hai Her Dukh Mere,
Her Kisi Ko Apna Gham Batany Ki Zaroorat Nhe Mujhy,
Pick something that creates a sense of fun or adventure.
Pick something that creates a sense of fun or adventure.
If you had a fantastic first date,
Call on the way home to say,
Thanks for the great time.
Establish boundaries. Be careful to not share too much on a first date. This isn’t an arranged marriage;
you’ll have second and third dates to share more. Be clear about physical boundaries if he’s over-eager. Sex on a first date is never, ever a good idea.
Don’t drink too much. A glass of wine is fine, but try to get to know each other sober. You can always drink on your honeymoon.
Your friends and Twitter followers are not invited on the date.
Don’t put pressure on yourself to be witty, smart or alluring. Don’t get caught up in the version of yourself you wish you were. He wants to date the real you.
Be confident. She already said yes. She wants to be there.
Be confident. She already said yes. She wants to be there.
Dress to impress. You don’t need to wear a suit and tie to the local pub, but it wouldn’t hurt to brush your teeth and put on a shirt that doesn’t look slept in.
Be on time. And be gracious if she’s fashionably late. (She probably just doesn’t want to show up before you get there.)
Be attentive. Ask great questions. Listen. Smile.
Prove that chivalry is not dead. Sure, she’s an independent woman. That doesn’t mean you shouldn’t open the door for her.
You don’t need to wear a suit and tie to the local pub, but it wouldn’t hurt to brush your teeth and put on a shirt that doesn’t look slept in.
First impressions matter, yes, but so does comfort. Don’t wear heels to a picnic date.
Show up on time, be polite to the waitstaff, and give your date your undivided attention.
Don’t pick somewhere super pricey, thinking you will impress her. Fancy places are land mines for uncomfortable moments–she might feel underdressed, worry about ordering something too expensive or the tone may be too formal. Somehow the stakes immediately rise with the prices, so it's better to keep things relaxed in terms of mood and money.
A glass of wine is fine, but try to get to know each other sober. You can always drink on your honeymoon.
Show interest in your date and be an active listener. Don’t let it be all about you.
Your friends and Twitter followers are not invited on the date.
Don’t put pressure on yourself to be witty, smart or alluring. Don’t get caught up in the version of yourself you wish you were. He wants to date the real you.
If your date is into music or their favorite band is in town, don’t think twice. Your date will be grateful and love you for planning a surprise date to the concert.
Have a picnic at a park, especially if it’s a pleasant sunny day. There’s something about staring at nature’s beauty that makes us all feel wonderful inside.
A coffee date is a comfort date at its best. It’s easy and can help your date judge you for who you are without being overpowered by the surrounding.
Cozying up under a blanket with a special someone can be romantic or sexual, as long as you pick the right movie. But invite a date home only if you know them well already.
A typical cook and eat restaurant is a wonderful experience for anyone. It helps you bond and laugh while you goof up, and awe when you cook up a perfect little dish!
For the star gazing lovers, nothing beats the peaceful setting of a reclined seat in a planetarium. It’s dark, cozy and a complete out-of-the-world experience!
If your date has an artist’s streak in them, make sure you take them to an art exhibition or a gallery. For someone who appreciates art, it’s always a beautiful experience
Drive down to a creek for a bit of lazy fishing or hire a boat to bag those bigger fishes, depending on what you want, romance or excitement.
Themed restaurants are always fun, but for a first date, opt for something with a romantic touch, be it candlelight or a band of mariachis.
Take your date back to their childhood by ordering a humongous portion of ice cream with all the works for them. Just looking at it will brighten your date’s smile *you can help your date finish it*.
An musical show is perfect for a sophisticated date who loves a grand and colorful gesture.
Go berry picking or just take a walk down the endless rows of low hanging fruit bearing trees and shrubs.
A museum may not be the typical date idea, but no matter which museum you go to, there’s a very good chance that you’d find something interesting to see for a couple of hours.
Aquariums are perfect to bring both of you closer, especially while pointing at fishes in a cool, blue surrounding.
A day at the beach or an hour walking near the waves can make both of you feel really comfortable with each other. If you feel comfortable enough, don’t forget to hold hands.
There’s something very sexy and sensual about jazz, especially if both of you are having a drink and sitting next to each other in a dimly lit room.
Vineyards tours are very romantic and brewery tours are exciting and fun.
Take a walk on a quaint street you know well. Every few minutes or so of walking, find a new place to walk into, be it for a coffee or to try something exotic. Just don’t walk down a dark and lonely street unless you’re looking for a few dark corners.
There are so many one hour classes that are perfect for dates, be it pottery, glass painting, or just about anything else. Just make sure you go somewhere where you can finish the class with a souvenir.
Standup comedy is always funny, and a perfect date idea if you can couple it with dinner, either after the show or during the show.