It is said that love can happen to anyone, anywhere & anytime. it takes a lifetime for someone to fall in love and for someone, the first sight is enough… many names are related to love; for example: destiny, fate, soulmate, made-for-each-other, etc… here's a story i have with both the examples i've given above.

 About a pretty girl in 8th standard (14-15yrs) and a cute, rich, spoiled brat type of guy (18-19yrs)! the girl was rich too… but her family belonged to the political side (indian politics.) it is said that in India, you can never say if a politician is really helping his country or is a culprit spoiling the country UNLESS you're in politics too. the guy saw the girl somewhere and fell in love…

Love at first sight… believe me this guy was crazy! god knows where he'd seen her for the first time. but since he did, he started following the girl hard core! Can you believe it? just a sight can make the guy so in love… or was it just infatuation? whatever it was, it got the girl in a huge mess. he used to come at the girl's school with his friends. i think there was the first time the girl had seen him.

she wasn't into guys… No she wasn't a lesbian. but in those times, it was a crime for a girl to fall in love. not in every family.. but some families could kill their children for just being in love… it still happens in 2013! and i think that was 2005! so back to the story! she saw him there, and he used to come every single day! he knew all school schedules, & there he stood near the girl's car on his bike! there was so sign of contact as the girl always had his driver around. but something was happening…

she knew he came there just for her, to see her; through some juniors who were his friend's sister or something. almost an year passed by, but nothing happened practically… but the girl was in love too yet too scared of her family. the girl's dad had a side business of a hookah parlor. the guy used to go there almost every day…

he became friends with the girl's little brothers.. everything was going okay. but one day, one of the guy's friends got up & said that the guy was in a relationship with the girl in front of some worker in the parlor… Damn, the girl had got in so much trouble. but her family trusted her… the guy was threatened on his life & was also asked to never show his face again. 

But that guy had guts.. he still followed her every where she went! school, malls, school picnics, etc! oh yeah i remember he'd seen her for the first time at a mall on valentine's day! maybe it was the magic of the magical day! the same thing went on for 3 years… trust me pal, its not easy to follow a girl for three years without ever talking to her or receiving any signs that she's interested in you too…

some of the girl's friends started talking to the guy through social networking and warned him about the girl's family and also asked him to stop! as if the guy didn't know. but did he stop? there was no way he would! And then the girl made someone tell him that she's not interested in him! what could she do… knowing him, even talking to him could get her in a huge trouble… (her uncles carried guns with them) more than that, there was a chance the guy could have gotten killed!

After getting to know about her feelings, the guy stopped following her but i don't think there was any difference with his feelings. since the girl's parents knew him, there was no chance they'd get them married. the girl got married to some other guy… 
but soon after their wedding, not even six months, her husband died. her in laws thought she was a jinx, a bad luck and threw her out of their house… the family had to accept her back. but they weren't happy of her being there with them. you know indian traditions… A widow is always considered as bad luck! she's not allowed to even have colors in her life… she needs to wear white her entire life.

she cannot attend marriages or any event of happiness.. i don't think any girl deserves that… when a man's wife dies, there are no obligations for him... He can married again and start his life in a new way.. But a girl? There's no chance. Everyone knows its not fair, yet follows the so called "tradition" it didnt matter to any one.

But it did matter to him, he couldn't see her like that…i think it was totally destiny that  someday they accidentally met again… he noticed her white clothes. he was still ready to accept her.! but of course, he had to face family, tradition and all that bullshit.

And even the poor traditionally grown girl thought it was wrong! she was young, she had all her rights to life, but she couldn't have 'em because her husband died? common! the guy was real persistent and wanted her in-spite of all of it! And as i said he was crazy! He could do anything. He actually even did every possible thing to get his love. Even got beaten up by the girl's family. ( typical indian hero)after a few months, she finally agreed… they had to run away.

there was no way her or his family would have accepted their wedding…Nobody gets everything… you need to loose something in order to get something. i think their choice was right… it was a new beginning for the girl! And the guy got his first and last love! <3